2.22.2015

My Best Friend is Too Clingy

Q: "My best friend is SUPER clingy and I'm getting sick of it. She'll literally go off on me if I don't meet her after class, or when I can't hang out with her during the weekend. She'll try to blame me by saying that "I always make time for other people, but not her". And I've tried telling her to back off and give me some space but she doesn't understand. ALL the people in our friend group doesn't like her, so when they plan parties and invite me, but not her, she starts bitching at me saying that its messed up that I would go to a party without her. From there she'll try to guilt me into inviting her (against everyone's wishes). She's the kind of person to blame it all on me and say I'm a terrible person to everyone she knows. More drama from her is the last thing I need. HELP PLEASE." -Anonymous

A: Hello! This seems like a toxic friendship that will never work in your favor. Like any friendship, there always needs to be compromise. It can't always be about what one friend wants all the time. "Let's do this, let's go here, let's hang out, blah blah blah." If she can't take your words into consideration and give you the space you need, just dump that chick in a trash can (not literally). She can bitch at you all she wants, but if you don't give her the satisfaction of sticking your head up her ass and caring about what she has to say, she will eventually move on and torment some other lost soul. From there, you will notice that there will be no more drama, guilt, or headache in your life. I hope this helps! Let me know if you need any more advice.

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